A Year of Smiles – Day 291

Reason to SMILE #291: HE’S GOT YOU!

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Matthew 6:25 – 26

Therefore I tell you, do not worry about your life, what you will eat or drink; or about your body, what you will wear. Is not life more than food, and the body more than clothes?  Look at the birds of the air; they do not sow or reap or store away in barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not much more valuable than they?

Read those verses again and let that thought wash over you.


By the way, that question – it’s rhetorical. But in case you are unsure, the answer is “Yes! Yes you are!” And our God will take care of you.

He’s got you!

So stop with the worrying. It’s time to SMILE!


A Year of Smiles – Day 240 and 241

IMG_8489I’m a day behind on my SMILES so today I’m throwing two your way. They’re short and sweet and offer no meaningful reflection whatsoever. Are you ready?

Reason to SMILE #240: NEW CLOTHES

I’m attending a wedding this weekend. Oh, weddings! (I shared that SMILE with you on Day 174.) Unfortunately, I don’t have the wardrobe for a wedding. So, what does that mean? New clothes! Yay! It’s nice to have something new to wear every now and then, isn’t it? It’s even nicer when the new clothes get the approval of the hubby. WooHoo! Now that makes me SMILE.

The only bad thing about new clothes is having to go shopping. Though I once loved it, I now see shopping as simply another chore. Ugh! But, have no fear. There can even be SMILES in dreaded shopping trips especially when I find…

Reason to SMILE #241: A BARGAIN!

And this trip did not disappoint. Not only did I find something appropriate for a wedding, I got a great deal. Can you say “clearance”? I walked out of the department store with two lovely blouses and one very cute dress for only $30. You better believe that made me SMILE!

New clothes and a bargain – simple little SMILES yet taken for granted by so many.

Thank you, Lord, for allowing me the luxury of buying new clothes when needed. And thank you for multiplying my little bit of funds into a great blessing!

Okay. Okay. I was wrong. There’s always something meaningful in every SMILE.

A Year of Smiles – Day 218


The evening service was over. I was looking forward to going home, propping my feet up and watching something on Netflix. It didn’t matter what. I only wished to vegge out for a while. Unfortunately, it wasn’t going to happen as soon as I had hoped. You see, I had to make a stop before I could enjoy those desired moments of rest. I had one more item on my son’s school supplies list that I needed to purchase and it had to be done before tomorrow. Ugh!

As I made my way to the church exit, I was walking and talking with the student minister’s wife. Right as we were joined by the student minister, my phone rang. It was my husband wondering when I’d be home. I explained that I needed to stop at the store to pick up composition notebooks and suddenly the student minister’s face lit up. He motioned for me to wait and then he ran into his office. I told my husband I’d call him back. I had to see what was happening.

A few moments later, the student minister returned with two new composition notebooks in his hand! WooHoo! I didn’t have to make a stop before going home after all! What a blessing! My day ended with a SMILE…

… Of course, I was actually already SMILING.  Earlier in the afternoon, my older son returned home from his summer internship. And just before the evening service began, he stopped by to give me a great, big hug!

I’d say I’ve had a pretty good day!

Not WHAT you Know but WHO you Know

I was sitting across from my pastor at his desk in the church office.  I was 18 years old, had one semester of college under my belt and was looking forward to heading back to college for my second semester.  There was one thing standing in my way, though – MONEY!  Costs were adding up, scholarships were not covering all the expenses and the funds just weren’t there.  I didn’t know how the bills would be paid but I was trusting God to provide.

My dad, who was the minister of music at our church, had previously discussed the matter with the pastor, and as I was visiting him at the church one afternoon, the pastor called me into his office.  We sat down and he picked up the phone.  The next thing I knew, he was talking to the college financial aid office, throwing around names and voila! my tuition was covered.  After hanging up the phone, my pastor looked over his desk at me and said, “You see, Karen, it’s not what you know in this life; it’s who you know.”  I was so very glad to know Rev. Bobby Moye that day!

I have always loved to learn.  Being a good student was a priority for me and being the top student was my goal (though I didn’t always meet that mark).  Knowledge was my strength but that afternoon in my pastor’s office, I learned that it takes more than just my merits, accomplishments and knowledge to make it in life.  It takes the help of others to stand beside me, to provide where I cannot, to support and encourage me, to lighten my load of burdens, to cheer me up and to simply be there for me.  Who I know is just as important as and many times more important than what I know.

The lesson of “not what you know but who you know” has stuck with me.  I often quote my pastor and recall the truth of his words in the sticky situations of this life.  In fact, recent events in my life have reaffirmed that truth and as I have been reflecting on my pastor’s words and thanking God for the people He has allowed me to know in my life, a greater truth has been revealed.  While praying over the situation, I heard God softly whisper, “It’s not what you know, Karen; it’s WHO you know.”

Ever have those moments when you just want to shout for joy?  That very moment was one of those times for me.  You see, I can know the richest of the rich and they can help me in my financial crunches.  I can know the strong and powerful and they can protect me from harm.  I can know the socially elite and they can increase my standing in society.  I can know all these people who can do all these things for me but what truly matters in my life is this one fact: I know God.  He is the WHO that provides for my needs, makes a way when no way is in sight, heals me, protects me, works things for my good, goes before me, lifts me up, defeats the enemy, loves me and saves me.  (Now that’s shout-worthy!)

God is the WHO that makes all the difference in my life and I am so very glad that I know Him.  Even more, I am glad that He knows me!  He knew me before I was a twinkle in my mother’s eye.  He formed me in my mother’s womb.  He knows the number of hairs that are on my head.  He knows my innermost thoughts and the deepest desires of my heart.  He knows my needs before I ask.  He has plans for my life and He has made a way for me to live in eternity with Him one day.  Who better to know than the One who knows me best!

My pastor was right.  It’s not what you know in this life; it’s WHO you know and WHO knows you!

Psalm 139:1 – 14

1 You have searched me, Lord, and you know me.
2 You know when I sit and when I rise; you perceive my thoughts from afar.
3 You discern my going out and my lying down; you are familiar with all my ways.
4 Before a word is on my tongue you, Lord, know it completely.
5 You hem me in behind and before, and you lay your hand upon me.
6 Such knowledge is too wonderful for me, too lofty for me to attain.

7 Where can I go from your Spirit?  Where can I flee from your presence?
8 If I go up to the heavens, you are there; if I make my bed in the depths, you are there.
9 If I rise on the wings of the dawn, if I settle on the far side of the sea,
10 even there your hand will guide me, your right hand will hold me fast.
11 If I say, “Surely the darkness will hide me and the light become night around me,”
12 even the darkness will not be dark to you; the night will shine like the day,
for darkness is as light to you.

13 For you created my inmost being; you knit me together in my mother’s womb.
14 I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful, I know that full well.